“Wait a minute. Connie Swail? Don’t you mean The Virgin Connie Swail?” – Dragnet (1987)
I slept with a rich girl who was a bit of a tramp once. Got lobsters.
I’ve had several posts about how sex and economics are intertwined more tightly than a bachelor weekend at Bill Clinton’s place. It is one of the more misunderstood parts of what is slowly destroying the family in the West. This, in turn, will gradually destroy the economics of the West. Without the culture of the West, the West effectively disappears.
This post will be pretty heavy on pictures and memes, almost all of which are as-found.
Let’s take a step back to 1776. I would love to do that in reality, and (in future posts) we’ll look to see how close we are to that. But back to the people that were there the first time. They were, mostly, pretty young. Sure, there were old dogs like Ben Franklin, but Jefferson was only 33. Madison, who would steer the Constitution to completion just over a decade later, was only 25.
Man, John Marshall must have had a hard 20 years on him.
Men were young (even though, yes, the paintings above weren’t done in 1776), yet doing amazing and important things. George Washington was 57 years old at his inauguration, which is astonishing since our likely presidential candidates in 2024 will be a combined 741 years old.
Back then, most men could find a woman and get married, sometimes once or twice (when wife 1.0 died in childbirth). This led to a certain stability, combined with the family economic structure. In this case, most families were Corporate Families – everybody worked, and everybody pitched in to keep things going. The reason that schools had spring breaks wasn’t to go to drink tequila in Cancun and go “woo” but to help plant. Summers were off to work the farm. And fall breaks were necessary for the harvest.
Kids were small farm implements, which is why families had lots of them. Divorces: uncommon. Religion: common. 
Sadly, not a bikini graph.
In my lifetime, the Wilder Family has generally always existed in the tan area, including great-grandparents with a male breadwinner, though Great-grandpa and great-grandma McWilder ran an inn near a railroad where they only rarely killed and ate unsuspecting guests.
The golden age of the Male Breadwinner model was between 1900 and somewhere between 1960 and 1970. I’d note that around 1920 when women got the right to vote that the decline in Male Bread started, though it really began in earnest at the Great Depression.
At least Canada knows the score.
During World War II, there was a need for female labor as many men were given multi-year European and Pacific Island vacations. When the war was over, the decline continued at the same pace as the dual income model became the norm.
Until feminism and Leftism infected society at large leading to the steepest decline in stable family economic structures. This predated the economic decline of the United States, which I date to 1970-1973. Gee, I wonder if they could be related?
Now, Dual-Earner is the predominant economic model, with Female Breadwinner starting to make itself known.
New York Times Headline, 2025: Fathers’ Day: Women and Minorities Most Impacted.
Are there any economic or societal consequences to this change in the economic composition of the family? Why, yes. It’s killing society. It’s killing the kids.
The kids even have a name for it: No Girlfriend, No Work. There are other names, such as No Heir, No Work. It seems that young men have become utterly uninvested in society because they don’t have a girlfriend, nor the prospects of one. Things like Tinder® haven’t helped. As noted below, one young man was on Tinder® 3 and a half years. Nearly 40,000 swipes. 2 matches. Zero dates.
What? What’s going on?
In their youth, women are all fighting over the smallest number of men, the 9’s and 10’s. Since on a slow night, a 9 man will hook up with a 5, the 5 now thinks she’s worthy of at least a 9. Consider a 5 man?
No way.
This is not unique. This is not cultural. This is built into the innate preference of women to date up for offspring, and men to create as many offspring as they can. Here’s an example out of China (LINK) where an (American) teacher gave varying treats to a mixed class of boys and girls. On the first day, the girls got to pick first, and picked the best treats. The girls shared only with the two most popular boys, ignoring all of the rest. On the second day, the boys got to pick first, randomly. The treats were randomly distributed among the boys, so the girls interacted with all of the boys and everyone was happier.
When women pick, the distribution is (at least) skewed like the graph below, if not more skewed.
Most 22-year-old girls can have an 8+, if it’s 2am and the 8+ is drunk enough.
What are the results? Virginity in boys (not girls) is rising. Dating is going down among people who should definitely be dating.
As difficult as that is for guys, women use it as a golden ticket (again, in their early 20s) for fun and prizes:
But when these same women hit their thirties, the game is over. The 9s and 10s are either married to 9s and 10s, or they’re dating 22-year-olds. Just ask Leonardo DiCaprio.
Leo’s max age for dating is 25. And he’ll get 25-year-old 9s and 10s until he’s 75. Look at Al Pacino, who can barely walk:
I’m sure they’re super compatible, since she was born when he was only 53.
The woman who was in dozens if not hundreds of relationships in her 20s with the hottest of men will only settle in her mid to late thirties with a man who meets her qualifications. Those men who would have met those qualifications, being fit, making great money?
They’re married. They have kids, and that 5 (or less than 5) would rather be a drunken wine aunt then settle. Women use youth, beauty, and relative chastity to capture worthy men. If those are wasted on huge numbers of Chads? Off to the wine and cat farm with an empty womb. And the military will fight for that “right”, too.
I’m old enough to remember when the military was supposed to kill foreign enemies, not American babies.
Just like most things, this has a very, very simple solution. To be clear, the solution will be implemented when the circumstances require it. Oddly, the women will be happier, too. And we can finally stop listening to women complain about body shaming.
Lmao you pathetic racists never fail to make me laugh with your “wilder wealthy wise” posts
Face it, most poc will be infinitely more successful than any of you sad virgins ever will be. You are on the wrong side of history, get over it losers
And your happy in Toronto hahahahahahahah
It’s copypasta from a Mongolian Basketweaving forum.
Thank you for blessing this thread, Leaf.
Hey….Tiny Duck posts here too…!
Only when I read that caption did it occur to me that the Bikini Graph has become an endangered species here at WW&W. Might be time to bring ’em back, every now and then.
It’s really a function of not having an editor that can do that at 2am. When The Boy was in college, that was a thing. Now that he’s got a real job, I can’t text him at midnight to ask for him to make the graph transparent since he has, you know, work. Me? Why would I sleep when I can get coffee in the morning?
The plan of homo, no food, war, and abortion is all in line with what the globos preach DEPOPULATION
I don’t think the goal is depopulation, I think the goal is learned helplessness. “Learned helplessness” in lab animals is “depression” in humans. Elites will do anything to prevent the middle class from realizing it doesn’t need the elites. Quick! Do something, or world poverty will end in 1995!
https://www.aei.org/carpe-diem/chart-of-the-greatest-and-most-remarkable-achievement-in-human-history-thanks-to-free-market-capitalism/
Really, you must not listen to what they say.
Depopulation, like making beaucoup bucks is a feature, yes. And the raising d’etre for at least one of these Idiocracy-model Dr. Evils. What they say is iffy.
*Raison d’etre
(yeah, sometimes ya gotta hate spellcheck “helping”)
I’m working on a post that ties that one together. I’ll be a week or two out. It’s also a sign of the times.
On the first Feminian Sandstones we were promised the Fuller Life
(Which started by loving our neighbour and ended by loving his wife)
Till our women had no more children and the men lost reason and faith,
And the Gods of the Copybook Headings said: “The Wages of Sin is Death.”
~ Kipling, the genius Punster
One of my favorites from one of my favorites.
Before those, it is “No Hymen, No Diamond”. In other words, none of us want your whore ass and especially won’t marry that slut.
Far too many females f**k around then expect a man to fix all of their problems while acting as a walking wallet for their c**t asses. They are foul, inside and out, and don’t improve with age. Then there are the chameleons who in their 30s claim to be “trad”, born-again virgins and the like. God might forgive them but no reason for me to marry their asses after they f****d thousands of men.
You older guys have no clue how bad things are unless you experience it firsthand. It’s only gotten worse since the free-love bullshit pushed in the 60s and the advent of birth control. And before any claims that I am a seething virgin incel, I did give it my best shot with my ex. Just ended up wasting years of my life and thankfully no kid for her to ruin.
Sick of women so much it’s unreal.
(JW-edited to add *)
I am so sorry for your loss, sir.
My second reminder in one day’s span that the tragedies of clownworld defy the dispassionate analysis of the philosphers when one is drowning in them.
May, by God’s grace, your suffering pass, and joy and contentment return to you.
I edited this for language because I wanted folks to see what you’re going through but still wanted to keep this PG. It’s horrible out there, and yours is far, far from a rare case. What monsters are walking the Earth now.
Not a problem.
I don’t care about her anymore, not for a long time. It was a huge waste of time and resources though and the single females around now are not worth the effort. Vapid, grasping, often single moms. It’s all going to crash hard as more and more younger men (and not so young as myself) check out.
That’s the big point – society cannot live with this situation.
In a population that is roughly 50-50 male/female, for every dorky sub-5 guy who sits alone playing video games on a Saturday night, there is a girl sitting at home binge-watching romcoms with her friends, or whatever it is that dateless girls do on Saturday nights. For reasons that totally escape me, society and culture laugh at the solitary lonely guy but feel pity for the unchosen lonely girls.
God saw fit to fashion me into a gangly, awkward, stuttering sperg as a youth, but then rewarded me with height over 6 feet, an uncanny ability to hang muscle on little effort and even my father’s striking good looks once into my mid-teens. I was (and still am) painfully shy and socially awkward like so many of those lonely young men today. Yet I was snatched up crazy-early by a great gal who recognized the potential before any of the others. I have not forgotten those early-early days of extreme dorkiness before all the pieces came together, however, and how viciously I was mistreated by the cool girls in school who wouldn’t have risked being seen sitting with me in the lunchroom on a dare.
I must be a bad, bad person. I cheer every time I hear of a middle-aged white woman who never found anyone worthy of her, or who initiated her own divorce(s) seeking to “trade up” only to land on the ‘BUSTED’ square in life’s board game. I literally launch into my trademark sack dance, leaping from one couch to another while fist-pumping and belting out “Another One Bites the Dust” (No, really, it’s quite a sight to see). And those rapidly aging ladies who refused to temper their expectations are legion. Not every 50 year old singleton whose empty life is defined today by feral wine and boxed cats deserves her sad fate. But enough of them do such that the schadenfreude flows like a river.
TBC-
My end of the world is laden with “girls” in their 60s that could never find the “right guy”. Never got married, quite unhappy. They hit on married men constantly, even if they’re friends with their wives.
Once they’re that age, all the gym workouts, HRT, $$$ clothes, etc. are pretty much wasted. Just an older slut, period.
Video or the sack dance didn’t happen.
I may have taken some small liberties with the actual details regarding the busting of celebratory moves, but the spirit of the sentiments involved ring true (as well as the fist-pumping and Queen reboot).
The 5 girl can get a 7 or 8 or a drunk 9 on a Saturday night if she’s young enough. She’s not at home, she’s just out becoming a woman ruined because since that 8 had sex with her, she thinks she deserves an 8. The 8 made her a widow.
Sounds like a drug-type addictive experience, which moves the setting on your pleasure threshold such that normal/achievable experiences are no longer sufficient.
Exactly.
Good stuff including use of graphs. Shit even I could read them.
Yes, feminism did destroy the West. I’ve been kicking the Right around for some time concerning this priority but they are as stubborn as Solomon.
I’m around to help begin the restitution and provide a little solace. But make no mistake, I am also part of the Solution.
They are, and the Right will fall all over itself being a White Knight to defend women.
It’s all working as the Marxists/Maoists planned. Better Bachelor on youtube vlogs about this all the time.
I frequent Better Bachelor and enjoy his straightforward manner. MGTOW TV, in particular, provides a good range of ‘manosphere’ content, including BB, and is free and well-managed.
Also tend towards Hammerhand, Terence Popp & Toxic Male, Undead Chronic and Taylor the Fiend for related content. Some other good ones out there tho.
Better Bachelor says he’s ‘got a face for radio’ but he looks shiny to me.
Yup. I don’t think I’ve ever covered it like this before, and it’s become horribly relevant to the future of our country. If we can call it that anymore.
Feminism is a construct of the white male patriarchy in the honky size 20 shoe department.
It is all a feature to the Long March zero population growth crowd.
As for young Chads checking out of the Chiquitastan abomination, good, good, let the awakening flow through you.
If you get a Honey Chambers snapper in high school while young and good looking when it doesn’t matter how broke you are then what more do you need.
I loves me some Huey Lewis and the News!
The Chads don’t even notice, as the world flows around them. It’s Springtime for Chadistan.
The “solution” is going to happen when civilization implodes, wokeness goes up in a flaming fireball, and women become chattel goods for the surviving conquerors.
Pretty much like all societies from before history was written down, until about 1700 in most of the developed world. Or five minutes ago in the rest of it.
And society-to-come is going to get it, good and hard.
Pretty much the same way the women will.
As Humperdink’s father said in The Princess Bride “Won’t that be nice?”
I really has to, regardless of what anyone wants. The Gods of the Copybook Headings (as noted earlier) always win.
Great explanation of how female hypergamy is helping to destroy the West. Hypergamy has always existed, of course–wealthy Civil War widows had low re-marriage rates because they would rather have died than marry down. But the marriage rates would sort out if there was sufficient societal and economic pressure for women to marry.
Yup. It happens from time to time, but this is a huge amount on a societal basis.
I pretty much got over myself, and women, when I learned that the one thing women can’t deal with is to be ignored. If you give them nothing, there’s nothing for them to beat you over the head with. They spin off into the universe, to beguile some other victim, never understanding that they have just been dismissed. Most of them are just a pain in the ass, a few are worth getting to know.
The dynamic is set by nature. I’m still glad to be a man.